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Jun. 19th, 2007 | 01:22 pm
music: Endgame - Andersson-Ulvaeus

FAMILY. My grandmother died yesterday afternoon. She was admitted into hospice care on Friday, and daughter and I made the trip up to Seattle on Saturday. It wasn't really unexpected--she'd been in an Alzheimer's care unit for about seven years now--but it was good to see her one more time and bid her safe travels. Best of all, I got to spend some quality time with my mom and sister and aunt and daughter--death being woman's work, as my mom pointed out. It was a bittersweet trip, but I am really glad we made it.

WORK. I had a pleasant surprise today. I opened the story that I wrote for Tin House, the one that I basically ripped out of my metaphorical typewriter and shoved into the mail. I'd been afraid to look at that story until now, almost a month later. To my huge surprise, it does not suck. I've also been productive on the other stories I'm working on--of course, my personal definition of "productive" has changed from "lots and lots of words" to "a small number of good words that don't suck that I don't have to cut out later." Not much else going on ... another very encouraging Clarkesworld reject, and lots and lots of DayJobtm work. And, of course, JayCon this weekend!

COMMUNITY. The challenges of working out of my home office have been compounded by the onset of summer vacation. We now have, on average, five to fifteen kids running around like wild First Americans all day, bored out of their tiny little minds. So we've instituted the Monroe Street Summer Camp. My neighbor and I round the little savages up every MWF around 4 p.m. and take them for a long walk around the neighborhood. Additionally, husband takes everyone up to the pool on Tuesdays & Fridays. It's not much, but it gives them something to look forward to. Also, we're planning a neighborhood barbecue for the Fourth of July.

GARDEN. The sunflowers are flourishing, the tomato plants are huge. I just this week put in the last round of seeds--zucchini and pumpkins and some peppermint and some other assorted flowers. It's getting a bit late for seeds, and the days are so hot that I'm going to have to be aggressive in watering the beds to make sure they don't dry out. We shall see.

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Maybe It's Just Me

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from: [info]hazelwindows
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:42 pm (UTC)
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My sincere sympathies for your grandmother. My grandfather died of Alzheimer's too.

The summer camp ideas you have going are great. No one structured anything regularly in my summers as a kid. Consequently, we all managed to get into every cliche kind of "trouble" they warn you kids will get into when left to their own devices. Injuries at a construction area, jumping off roofs "to see if we could do it", introducing ourselves and visiting the "odd", single man's house who tried to befriend children because he had no adult friends, digging through bushes and finding teenagers' illicit stashes of porn and booze, coaxing home neighbor dogs we thought were strays and hiding them so *then* we figured mom-n-dad would say we could keep them later since they were so easy to take care of, spying on adults and taking notes to report to the rest of the neighborhood kids whatever was heard, jeez, that's just the tip of the iceberg of our mischief. Maybe I was a bad seed.

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:48 pm (UTC)
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Maybe I was a bad seed.

No, given my experiences so far, you're just about par for the course. ;-)

What I hate more than anything is how the kids try to amuse themselves by being mean to each other. They get bored, they form little alliances, they fight and are cruel to those not protected under whatever treaty is in place at the moment. God, is this really what passes for enjoyment among us monkeys?

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Maybe It's Just Me

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from: [info]hazelwindows
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 10:18 pm (UTC)
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You know, I always tried to be the "good" kid, so if *that's* what I was up to, God knows what the kids that grew up to be huge assholes were doing back then with their free time.

Children can be so cruel. It's true. And, there doesnt seem to be any way to convince them *not* to be. It's just part of the learning they have to experience, I guess. On the flip side, there is nothing quite so sweet as having a strong alliance with a best buddy in the midst of that kind of social structure. Maybe one begets the other. I still privately refer to feelings I've known from that time even now to help me better define the trust I want to have in my relationships. Kids can be cruel but kids are also staunchly loyal & trustworthy when moved to be. I'm sappy today-- *happy smile*

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Marissa Lingen

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from: [info]mrissa
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:43 pm (UTC)
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I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm glad that things sound like they went as well as they ever can on that front.

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:52 pm (UTC)
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Yes, you've hit the nail on the head. No one was happy, but we were all satisfied that the end was peaceful.

M

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Maybe It's Just Me

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from: [info]hazelwindows
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:47 pm (UTC)
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And as an aside, I love the "by category" updating style you've used here. So much simpler!

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:51 pm (UTC)
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Always looking for more efficient ways to make my life absorbable into the bloodstream of modern culture.

;-)

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Snuffy LaRue

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from: [info]jess_ka
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 09:53 pm (UTC)
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Sympathies. It's good you got to be with family.

Go you on the writing front, and the summer camp front.

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 12:49 am (UTC)
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Thank you, thank you, and thank you.

<3

M

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robin catesby

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from: [info]deedop
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 10:30 pm (UTC)
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My sympathies. Interesting on death being "woman's work." When Dad died, my brother left the house before the funeral home pick up guys showed up - because he admitted he couldn't handle it - so Mom and I did all the work. It seems ever thus.

I'm looking forward to seeing you at Jaycon this weekend.

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 12:49 am (UTC)
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I look forward to seeing you at Jaycon as well. And congrats to Dave on the great news!!!

M

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Serge_LJ

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from: [info]serge_lj
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 11:16 pm (UTC)
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My condolances about your grandmother.

And my congratulations about your story. I think my wife tells me pretty much every day that what she just wrote sucks. Of course it always turns out that it doesn't suck, but does the writer remember that? Of course not.

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 12:48 am (UTC)
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Thanks for the kind thoughts. By the way, I looked at the Website you updated for your wife when you posted it a while back. Wowsers!! That's a lot of books! I'm going to have to pick up the one set in 1920s New York, for obvious reasons ... ;-)

M





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Serge_LJ

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from: [info]serge_lj
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 07:14 pm (UTC)
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Thanks. If ever you do read one of hers, let me know what you think.

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Leah Bobet

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from: [info]cristalia
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 11:31 pm (UTC)
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Condolences, and I'm glad you got to see your grandmother this weekend.

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tuber_x

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from: [info]tuber_x
date: Jun. 19th, 2007 11:57 pm (UTC)
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Sorry to hear about your grandmother.

Do you find yourself unconsciously doing a punnett square? I do that with every illness in my family after I learn it is hereditary.

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M.K. Hobson

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from: [info]mkhobson
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 12:22 am (UTC)
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I feel pretty confident that I will eventually develop Alzheimers. I have it from both sides of the family, and I'm already a space cadet most of the time.

All I can hope (as I mentioned to my mother) is that they'll have a cure by the time I hit 80.

By the way, I had to look up Punnett Square, college boy. ;-)

M

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tuber_x

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from: [info]tuber_x
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 12:31 am (UTC)
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Alzheimer's really is not understood very well yet, so when they discover something, there will be a breakthrough. You're as good as cured. Anyway, an estimated 25-50% of people are reported to have Alzheimer's after age 85. So, at least, you won't be alone.

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from: understanding
date: Jun. 20th, 2007 11:57 pm (UTC)
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Sorry about your grandmother. :(

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